The Games Your Identity Plays

I am worthless, I am nobody

Noone likes me

I am just not good enough…

Do you relate to these statements ? You may have a crippling self identity.

Self-image relates to how you see yourself both internally and externally

It gives us a sense of our personality and your relation to others.

Mind Games and Matrix Programs

In the world of marketing, self-image is synonymous with personal branding. It shapes how you present yourself in the world. Self-image is essentially your personal brand, shaping how you present yourself and affecting how others perceive you. However, this construct often diverges from your Higher self, which seeks spiritual growth. In essence, it may not reflect the Authentic you.

Let's delve deeper into the layers of self-image and the ingrained programs within your psyche, influencing your alignment with the Source and distorting your true essence, often referred to as the Soul. When the mind and soul are out of sync, transcending the reality around you becomes challenging..

The initial step involves identifying these programs and mental constructs that obstruct the recognition of your innate cosmic gifts and obscure your inner calling. It requires dedicated effort to clear these barriers.

VICTIMHOOD

One prevalent paradigm that hinders clarity is victimhood. And it is one of the hardest attachment to let go is to leave the Victim Identity. Why I call it as an Identity? This association with victimhood is termed an "identity" because the emotions it evokes—hurt, despair, and pain—are unnatural for the soul

I won’t go much into the mechanics of this program, because you can find ample resources online on the Karpman Triangle. Instead, let's focus on recognizing signs of victimhood:

Do you find yourself trapped in recurring scenarios where you feel wounded, exploited, or shattered? Is self-blame or blaming others a recurring theme in your life? Do feelings of self-hate or self-pity persist in a seemingly endless cycle?

How to erase VICTIMHOOD program?

To shed the victimhood program, proactive steps are necessary. If self-help literature proves insufficient, consider seeking guidance from a mindset coach, NLP practitioner, or hypnotherapist—professionals specializing in subconscious reprogramming.

Incorporating practices such as chakra clearing and balancing can also prove beneficial, because when you work on your energy centers you also work on the mental and emotional bodies that may have preserved these Victimhood thoughts stuck in your aura.

For individuals burdened with years of accumulated negativity, consulting a prana healing specialist or chakra healing practitioner may be essential.

Gradually transforming your victim identity involves learning to set boundaries. Establishing a Code of Conduct and communicating your expectations to others can bolster your sense of strength, pride, and confidence. Hold firm to these boundaries until you feel sufficiently empowered to assert yourself.

TYRANNY

If playing the victim role has never truly fit you, perhaps it's time to examine instances where you've thrived on exhibiting power, control, and manipulation.

Intimidation and manipulation become your guiding principles, as you relentlessly pursue your desires, regardless of the cost. But ask yourself, does this behavior align with your soul's true desires?

Narcissism, unless clinically diagnosed, often stems from an adopted identity rather than inherent neurological imbalances. It's an identity you can shed with conscious effort.

Take notice and consciously intervene when feelings of anger arise, when your voice raises, or when violent impulses emerge. Such reactions trigger destructive programming; nip them in the bud.

Practice deep breathing techniques, counting backwards from 20 to 1, envisioning a spiral corridor leading from your mind to your heart. This visual journey can vary in color, thickness, or shape.

Seeking guidance from experts well-versed in neuroscience and emotional intelligence can also provide valuable insights.

Guided meditation serves as a powerful tool to quiet disturbing thoughts, alleviate anxiety, and disrupt recurring negative patterns of thinking.

DUALITY

Good/Bad

Winner/Loser

Black/White

Dark/Light

In esoteric philosophy, transcending duality involves recognizing the underlying unity that exists beyond apparent differences and divisions. This recognition leads to a profound sense of interconnectedness and oneness with all aspects of creation, ultimately leading to the realization of one's true nature and the divine essence that permeates all existence.

Moreover, duality is not merely perceived as a dichotomy or conflict between opposing forces, but rather as a dynamic interrelationship that fosters growth, harmony, and evolution. It is through the reconciliation and integration of these opposites that individuals and the universe at large can attain higher states of consciousness and spiritual enlightenment.

Transcending dualistic views is a profound endeavor that involves shifting one's perspective and cultivating a deeper understanding of the interconnected nature of reality. A few practical tips to transcend EGO.

Start looking at people as your equals. Cultivate compassion and empathy towards others, recognizing their inherent humanity and interconnectedness with yourself. By embracing the oneness of all beings, you can move beyond divisive judgments and dualistic thinking. Mindfulness practices such as meditation can help you observe these patterns without judgment, allowing you to develop a more detached perspective.

Explore teachings and philosophies that emphasize unity and interconnectedness. Study various spiritual traditions, mystical texts, or philosophical concepts that highlight the underlying unity of all things.

Explore and integrate your own shadow aspects—the unconscious or repressed parts of yourself. By acknowledging and embracing these aspects, you can move towards wholeness and greater self-awareness.

Cultivate a state of presence and acceptance in the present moment. Release the need to constantly categorize and label experiences as good or bad, right or wrong, and simply allow life to unfold as it is.

Start opening higher chakras, up to the 12th chakra, which helps you feel unity with the Higher Aspect - Creator of All.

Consider seeking guidance from spiritual teachers, mentors, or therapists who can offer support and insight on your journey towards transcending duality.

LIMITING BELIEFS

Limiting beliefs about reality and self are pervasive among humanity, ingrained through social conditioning, personal experiences, and cultural influences. These beliefs often dictate our perceptions, behaviors, and aspirations, constraining our potential for growth and fulfillment.

By embracing a mindset of possibility and cultivating empowering beliefs, we can transcend the confines of our perceived limitations and manifest our true potential. Ultimately, the journey towards liberation from limiting beliefs is a deeply personal and transformative process, leading to greater authenticity, resilience, and inner freedom.

Let's begin with a 15-minute exercise:

Grab a blank sheet of paper and divide it in half.

On one side, jot down any limiting beliefs you hold about yourself and your abilities.

On the other side, celebrate your victories and accomplishments in life, recalling instances where you defied the odds and succeeded.

Now, read both lists aloud, tuning into the energy each set of words carries. Notice where you feel uplifted and empowered.

Next, ignite the list that stirs up feelings of sadness, shame, or anger, releasing those limiting beliefs to the flames of your candle.

Finally, record new affirmations about yourself and listen to them daily, reinforcing positive self-talk.

Once you've minimized the impact of limiting beliefs about yourself, extend this practice to rewriting limiting beliefs about reality.

Seek out stories of remarkable feats that challenge conventional notions of possibility—tales of miraculous recoveries, academic triumphs, groundbreaking scientific discoveries, or narratives of mastering energy manipulation. Expand your perception of what's achievable in the world.

For further support, consider exploring a Belief Change Meditation, inspired by Joe Dispenza's techniques, featuring binaural beats and hypnotic transmissions. Access the Audio Section for unlimited listening and reinforcement of your newfound beliefs about yourself.

SCARCITY MINDSET

The scarcity mindset can be understood as a state of consciousness rooted in the illusion of separation and lack. It arises from a belief in the finite nature of resources and abundance, rather than recognizing the infinite potential inherent in the universe. From this perspective, scarcity is seen as a distortion of reality, stemming from a disconnection from the underlying unity and abundance of existence.

Individuals trapped in the scarcity mindset may be caught in a cycle of karmic patterns and energetic blockages that perpetuate feelings of limitation and deprivation. They may harbor deep-seated fears of not having enough or being unworthy of abundance, which can manifest as scarcity in various aspects of their lives, including finances, relationships, and personal fulfillment.

Transcending the scarcity mindset in esoteric terms involves shifting one's consciousness towards a deeper understanding of the interconnectedness of all things and the inherent abundance of the universe. It requires releasing attachment to material possessions and external validation, and instead, cultivating a sense of inner richness and gratitude for the blessings already present in one's life.

Practices such as meditation, energy healing, and spiritual inquiry can help individuals dissolve the energetic imprints of scarcity and align with the flow of universal abundance.

One of the greatest practice is Karmic Clearing, a transformative practice aimed at resolving energetic debts accumulated across lifetimes, releasing individuals from the burdens of past actions and experiences.